i must say that i didn't communicated with her since the time my mom stood up her mom for a Monday dinner appointment. my mom forgot all about it and my BFF sent me some nasty SMSes which i didn't like the tone of it. yes, my mom was in the wrong but given that she has just discharged from hospital due to her episode of stroke in May, i expected that all of us are more understanding. i gathered my mom has "reconciled" with her mom and my BFF but our friendship has turned "superficial".
i guessed that this will go on a while. that's life, a friendship that was more than 20 years will have to wait a while to get around.